Sandy’s Blog

“The funeral as we know it is becoming a relic”  This headline caught my attention. Karen Heller of the Washington Post has written a good article about shifting trends and new ideas in U.S. funeral practices. You can read the full article on the…

An article published in U.S. News & World Report on October 31, 2018, is titled “Rethinking Death in America.” The author, staff writer Matthew Cella, describes the shift in choices that Americans are making regarding funerals and what to do…

“Pull up a chair, let’s talk about death…”  For two days at the Massachusetts Councils on Aging (MCOA) annual conference, October 18-19, 2017, Heather Massey and Sandy Ward represented FCAEM and FCAWM, providing information about death care options. Heather created a well-decorated…

Have you ever thought of building your own coffin? Perhaps not, but please watch this delightful 3-minute documentary (and musical!) about a club of seniors in New Zealand who have fun building their own low-cost coffins: “The Coffin Club” :…

As of July 27, 2017, funeral directors in Massachusetts must comply with the recently revised state regulations about Pre-Need Contracts. “The provisions of 239 CMR 4.00 shall apply in full to all Pre-Need Funeral Contracts which are established on or after…

National Public Radio (NPR) aired a two-part program February 7-8 reporting on deceptive pricing in the funeral industry. NPR found that SCI, the largest funeral company in the world, routinely charges high prices, but also conceals the fact that they…

Caitlin Doughty has produced a Youtube video about Direct Cremation, with advice for consumers. This video is part of her “Ask a Mortician” series, which combines humor with good education about death-care topics.  As a young funeral director in Los…

We have revised, again, our handout about local options for cremation services and have chosen cremation as the theme for our next Annual Meeting Program, which will be held October 23, 2016. Many questions have surfaced this year, triggered especially by…

On Tuesday April 26, 2016, over 35 people came to a “Death Café” hosted by the Granby Free Public Library, Granby, MA.  Refreshments were served and we gathered in small groups at different tables to talk about death. The conversations were…

Discussing Mortality:  A Community Conversation.  During March and April 2016 many libraries in Franklin and Hampshire Counties are participating in a regional program coordinated with staff from Cooley Dickinson Hospital and inspired by Dr. Atul Gawande’s bestselling book, Being Mortal.  The…